Anonymous asked:
Hi. I wanted to come here for advice I guess you could say. My husband and I have been married for a year and before even the year mark hit he left for his first deployment for a year. Some days I'm strong and I know it'll end but other days it just feels like this deployment is never ending. It's hard cause I know we could have grown closer and done so many things for our first year together but we couldn't. I've been trying to keep busy but it's just hard. How do I get through this?

Knowing what your going through, it’s difficult. Just remember when he comes home it’ll be like a honeymoon all over again. You can still do those fun things and grow stronger. Your growing stronger now. Not many couples can do long distance. Deployments is as long distance as it gets. And never forget to keep those things you want to do alive. When he comes back it doesn’t matter if you’ve been married a year or 50. Never stop growing stronger.

Anonymous asked:
Previous anon with the bf drama... I know I over-think stuff but that's just how I am... Like most of the guys he isn't sincere with his feelings, but all I ever got from him was sweet nothing..Except when he decides that we should get together-He is attentive for a week or two, after that he can't be bothered. We got together for the third time now. I keep hoping that thing are gonna change, because I don't wanna give him up, give US up, he has times when he makes me feel so good about myself..

Like I said before Hun, find someone who makes you happy all the time. You don’t need a man to make you happy.

You don’t. So letting him go might be the healthiest option because if you let him keep doing what he’s doing then your not gonna get to the next hurdle in relationships.

Anonymous asked:
Hi guys, actually know the answer to this, I just can't get myself to do it. I can't break up with my bf, although he is always so unsure about me, we've been on and off for a half a year now bc of that... I'm always afraid about us being over and he doesn't like it when I express it. But I'm such a sincere person, I can't shut up about my fears and I have lots. I also think that I love him, even though I haven't seen him all week. I miss him all the time, I don't know what to do anymore.

At the same time does he make you happy? You can’t live your life in fear. You gotta not be so afraid and take control of your relationship.

You need to make yourself happy before you can be happy with anyone else. Focus on you girly.

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Anonymous asked:
Today I make 5 months of officially dating my marine, but it feels like so much longer since we've known each other since freshman year in highschool, and were always best friends. I miss him so much more today this is the first month-aversary apart and I just miss him so much I'm having a hard time today, I wrote to him, but it's not the same. 63 more days till bootcamp is over and I get to see my love again ❤️

63 days!! That’s a lot closer than it sounds! I’m excited for you!! :)

-Jess 💕




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you don’t really see enough of this.

This is one of those things that makes you wanna cry instantly

(Source: ruberolaluna)

Hey everyone!

This past week has been such a blur. I started my last semester of college and classes are keeping me busy, along with an internship and wedding planning. Being this busy has been great because a week has gone by in the blink of an eye so Ray will be home before I know it.

My only problem is… YOU GUYS HAVE BEEN TOO QUIET!

Where are the questions? The brags? The rants? It makes us so happy when we see messages in the inbox so please, LOAD US UP!!


-Jess 💕 <3