I am 17. Almost 18. My boyfriend live I'm SC he is in The Navy and I live in Texas. We've never met in person. But I am very sure that he is the one. Sounds crazy. But I need some advice on long distance relationships
It doesn’t sound crazy at all. That’s how me and my fiancée started out and we’re still going strong. The best advice I can give you for a successful Lon distance relationship is this:
1) Make time for each other. Schedule Skype dates so no one gets their feelings hurt when the other doesn’t make time to talk.
2) NEVER lie. Open and honest communication is vital in an LDR. One lie, even a small one, could wreck the trust and that’s all you’ve got.
3) Be happy on your own. Don’t lose yourself and become so overwhelmed by your relationship that you lose who you are.
I have a close friend that I can depend on for anything. I really value our friendship but I've always thought he was very attractive. I got drunk one night and said that if I had to have sex with anyone of my friends, it would be him. I was embarrassed and just assumed that he wasn't attracted to me; I was wrong. Stuff happened btw us but not sex. He's said that we could if we wanted, but I'm afraid to ruin our friendship. He said he doesn't want to be in a relationship now but I want him :/
In my experience, sex has always complicated things, unless it has been between me and someone that is already committed to me. I understand where you’re coming from. I would do my best to hold off on having sex, especially since you’re concerned about losing your friendship. Good friends are very hard to find so avoid losing one at all costs. Talk to your friend. I know you say he doesn’t want a relationship, but unless you both hash things out and put everything out there, you’ll never know. Good luck!
My boyfriend leaves for MCRD in less than 2 months &I'm starting to feel the pressure. He's told me so many times about his fears that I will get bored and cheat or that I won't understand what he's going through &he's afraid of getting sent far away &having to leave me all alone for a long period of time. I understand his fears but doesn't he get that I have my own? I love him so much, &I am in this for the long haul but I just need him to be optimistic &understand that I'm not going anywhere
Just do your best to keep reminding him of that. I think sometimes we forget that it’s just as hard to be the one that has to do the leaving. It’s understandable that both of you have fears, but love conquers all. :)
My boyfriend and I have been together for about two and half months and know each other for better part of three years. I am a rising senior and he has graduated. He left for BCT about two weeks and just revived his first letter. Is it best to not wait for an answer and just continuously send letters? Even small notes everyday day or so? And I'm being criticized by my peers for being in love and being in a military relationship. Any advice on how to make it through?
Yes! We love to get letters or notes of random things. It’s the best part of mail call getting tons of mail from loved ones. I’m sure he’d love it..!
Do little games too, like what did we do that one time when…. Sorta stuff! 💛
My boyfriend is off to basic in a few weeks and we're having a bit of a leaving party for him, we were thinking of making tshirts saying good luck on the back but I was wondering if anyone had made some before and had ideas of what I can have on the front of mine? Thanks xo
Does anyone have any ideas? I’m thinking more along the lines of kick butt or show ‘em what your made of type of stuff!💛
Not for advice at all but I have just found your page - I got married to my RAF husband last weekend and I just wanted to say that it's lovely to see girls like yourselves helping out others! Just shows theres some great people out there! :) x
Wow. That is so sweet of you to say. That really means a lot to us. Thank you so much hun. :)
I'm the anon with the weed question. He never heard anything and it's been two and a half weeks since they drug tested him. We assume he's in the clear. He won't be so stupid again...I hope.
Glad everything has worked out!
I have A friend that helps me with my body checks. So he's seen me in a bra and panties more than once. He recently admitted that he gets hard when he looks at any picture of me. What should I do?
Talk to him. If your comfortable with just remaining friend then tell him that. If you have feelings for him then tell him.
If you want things to stay the same then have them remain the same.